Notes from Dr. Borkosky

I have the same problem. I don’t want to lose the intimacy of this relationship – but I may have to – for my own sanity….and solvency….and frankly – it sucks. Stop drinking and drugging. Even if you ask him to sign a promissory note, you’ll still have to follow up and even sue him to get your money back. And then I have to feel uncomfortable for saying no. Girls you cannot buy love, and you cannot change a man. The more open and honest you can keep the conversation, the better off you’ll both be. Millions of Americans use dating sites, social networking sites, and chat rooms to meet people. I BORROWED $6,000.FROM Our savings..to put down on a car .I’ve already paid back a $1,000.00 To the savings account…my husband keeps nagging me to pay the rest back..I’m trying but it’s not fast enough. You don’t want your parents to have to say no to loaning your boyfriend money, and you know nothing good will come from financial loans between you and your boyfriend.

There’s no way to sustain a relationship like this, and it’s up to you to cut your losses before he does. COOK AT HOME.

I told him this was something he should work on for himself, if we’re to be together in the future because I can’t share my life and finances with someone who is not secure with his own life and finances.

We will not post comments that do not comply with our commenting policy. And likewise if he wasn’t with me he wouldn’t have to pay for the extra toilet paper etc. Being that he is using your credit it is of risk to you, especially at the level of $20K. If you’re in a relationship with someone for a long time—especially if you live together—then money is bound to swap hands back and forth. We are pretty serious about our relationship but yet we are young and still in college as undergraduates.

But we’re not. The pics appear to really belong to a completely different guy who was identity was lifted from Twitter. I know he don’t earn to much but he can at least pay me litte by little back.

If you do, you must create a user name, or we will not post your comment. Says he will come back to the states to get his money and meet me for a happy everlasting life together. Leave and find a guy w a job or you can do this your whole life. When you are in a relationship – if someone is in need, and you can, you should just give it. Last week he insisted on taking me to the grocery store and buying my groceries because I cook for him and have been taking care of his dog whom I just adore. To have a say in the borrower’s life decisions. My life sucked – and so did my finances….for the first time since the mid-90s. I did not have to say “I TOLD YOU SO”, she was really glad that she did not lend him another penny and told him that she was DONE! By continuing to use this site, you agree to our updated Terms of Service and Privacy Policy. my girlfriends are the broke type. Well, this man doesn't care about that. We reconnected through my mother (although she doesn’t know it). And, if he’s a good boyfriend, you might fumble and say the “wrong” things…and yet he’s okay with it because he really does love and respect you. You are 100% right that you and your boyfriend are equal partners, and you are both totally capable of looking after yourselves financially. There are a lot of ways he can get financing for a car if he needs a new car and I would suggest supporting him in searching but I wouldn’t offer your personal credit as a workaround unless you were married or have long-term financial goals you have both discussed and agreed to. If you find yourself stressing out about your new relationship, here are a few signs that the man you’re with isn’t worth your time. But after he receives your hard earned money more often than not he will turn on you leaving you hurt and broke. That just happened to me and he hoped I would never be in a desperate situation like his.

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