Notes from Dr. Borkosky

He for sure needs some help controlling this. Of course I was worried, drove to Boston, and drove around two hours looking for him, because he was so drunk, he had no idea where he was. This is much better than trying to guess why he might be mad. Should she stick around? Please note that he does NOT drink everyday, or every weekend, as I think he knows how bad he gets. What is this about? It doesn't matter that he only shows it some of the time. Then the whole car ride back he was calling me names, being mean to me, just hurting my feelings. Join Yahoo Answers and get 100 points today. I will feel horrible about kicking him out but like I said, I can not live like this. Then, you will hopefully get a direct answer from him. Im not saying it's ok for me and not him we can both watch we r grown adults I try not to show that I'm mad b/c I don't want him to feel bad . The question, do you want a boyfriend that’s an alcoholic? You haven't invested too much just yet. Now when I know my boyfriend is going to his aunt's (That's where he gets the alcohol and drinks) my stomach twists and my anxiety skyrockets causing me to have some muscle spasms (Don't know if it's caused by the anxiety or nerves) I have bad anxiety but I want to know why it's only when he drinks. A month later he was out with his buddies from work. Tell him if he's going to hang out with girls then he should have to constantly text you to see what it's like for you. I get nightly massages, he’s always loving and affectionate, has a great job, and wants to marry me and have children with me. HOWEVER ... when he drinks, he becomes a total different person. I had a great time at that play the other night. He's 18 and I'm 21. I have 4 kids, stay at home mom, plus I homeschool 2 of my children.. Aren't we usually on our best behavior during the first five months? I showed up at my boyfriend's house unannounced and he got so angry he almo... Vote on your opinion - drunk texts are the truth from a binge drinker yes or no-no maybes.

It will break my heart to see him leave.

I stood my ground and told him he can find his own place to sleep, as I was not going to drive around Boston looking for him again. I can relate. Then, of course, the same texts came in, he was drunk, wandering around Boston, no clue where he was, first being sweet, then being a jerk. Sometimes during my episodes i will break things causing harm to myself, cut cords to the phone , … It's still a drinking problem. But when he does drink, I always dread it, as he does not know how to moderate, he goes to full blown drunk. I have been in a serious relationship with my boyfriend for about 5 months. Nothing works. So that could be another factor. But we do have control over how we react. Why does he do this? I waited at the train station, and waited, and waited. Woww!! I think if he loves you he should get help, but an all too common theme to these situations is it will almost take you leaving for him to get it. Even if this man is open to confronting his problem, you need to think about whether this mostly good (and slightly scary) relationship is worth sticking around for. He has never been drunk or drank much in front of me, just when I'm not there (Since he does it on Saturdays mostly, which I normally work). He becomes very verbally abusive to me once he has reached a certain blood-alcohol level. I knew he was going out for a little bit and that he would be home around 9.

It's not legal for him to drink so that could be one reason, but back in the day before my friends were 21, they would drink too and I didn't care.

My boyfriend gets very angry when he drinks. His personality completely changes, almost like he is a different person. I laughed it off. This process won't be easy for him.

I am wondering how many times I should give him a chance. It's a drinking problem that puts you at risk, hurts your feelings, and has you searching for your partner in the middle of the night like he's a lost dog. You get anxious when your boyfriend goes out because you're worried he's cheating, or that you aren't good enough and he'll find someone better.

I am 41. Now fast forward another six weeks to last night. As I was writing this, being worried about him as I didn't hear from him since around 3:30am ... (I was tossing and turning the whole night), he just called. I am really busy, but we have always made time for each other. When he is sober, which is 95 percent of the time, he is amazing! Your boyfriend needs to make his own decisions. I have had a bad past and some of it was alcohol-related but that still doesn't explain why it's only when he does it. The best way to do this is to talk to him. I often get angry when my boyfriend hangs out with his friends. I’m a 26 year old woman and keep struggling with shortness of breath, heart palpitations, and get tired easily. What to Do to convince my angry boyfriend? I love him so much, I have given him plenty of chances but I can not live this way. He started texting me around 7 p.m., same scenario -- loving at first, then mean and cruel. He has never acted like that sober. My boyfriend gets very angry when he drinks. AAC, I'm about to state the obvious here, but your boyfriend has a drinking problem. like just hearing someone eat can send bursts of anger rageing through my body in seconds. He has never acted like that sober. You have two options: drop him -- or make a list of demands that include no more booze and major counseling.

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